Do you have this weird feeling? Sometimes you feel you are very social and there are times you have no idea what to say in a social setting. I normally am very social. Even if I go to places by myself I will talk to whoever and chat about whatever. I don't think I have ever gone to supermarket without talking to strangers. I go to ice rink a few times a week everyweek and yesterday the girls there said that they have never seen someone who is so good at putting people together and introduce each other as friends. I was very happy to hear that.
But you know what? there are times I totally have no idea what to say. That is in the pub or bar. Or anywhere when lots of random guys are around. I have no idea what to chat to guys. Not good with a group and not even good with just one. Not because of shy or anything its just that I have no idea what to talk about. computer? cars? sports? politics? none of them i have any ideas. It's almost boring sometimes. That's when I feel really empty social. Totally out of my power. HAHA
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do you only socialize with girls? are any strangers boys? Wait a second, are you afraid of boys?!? Susie... tsk tsk tsk..
No la I socialised with guys on ice skating rink la but that's easy cause we talk about ice skating. It's in the pub and bar I feel weird. Yeah I must be afraid of them haha
common interest does get people closer! in pub, much more complicated..because you don't know if they ARE really interested in your hobbies or YOU!
pub or bar....我也沒辦法.....真的,我可以了解....